Masking Tapes
Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.
-James A. Baldwin
-James A. Baldwin
Has your personality changed in the last five years? Psychologists have determined that we have five main characteristic traits: conscientiousness, neuroticism, agreeableness, openness, and extroversion. Once believed to be genetic and static after age 30, new research suggests that we do change quite often and quite a lot.(1)
It's not certain if we change in response to the situations in our lives or, if the changes we make bring about new circumstances. It's probably a combination that varies but can you imagine operating with the same habits and beliefs developed at a time when your intentions were different?
Many times, change is already under way when a person steps onto the mat for the first time. He is open to the nuances of yoga but comes to class with old methods of learning and moving his body. I see a willing body, waiting for it's owner to change his mind.
As I have been taught, I instruct "feel, don't force your body". Then, there is a visible tug-of-war between feeling and forcing. The two are welded together like conjoined twins. When the separation occurs, it is like removing a mask to reveal the joy underlying the struggle.
I've come to believe that a lot of the negative self- talk we constantly listen to are nothing but old beliefs. They sound off in the background like an ignored, but persistent TV. We exist in the present with our fresh, new personality waiting to unmask.
It's not certain if we change in response to the situations in our lives or, if the changes we make bring about new circumstances. It's probably a combination that varies but can you imagine operating with the same habits and beliefs developed at a time when your intentions were different?
Many times, change is already under way when a person steps onto the mat for the first time. He is open to the nuances of yoga but comes to class with old methods of learning and moving his body. I see a willing body, waiting for it's owner to change his mind.
As I have been taught, I instruct "feel, don't force your body". Then, there is a visible tug-of-war between feeling and forcing. The two are welded together like conjoined twins. When the separation occurs, it is like removing a mask to reveal the joy underlying the struggle.
I've come to believe that a lot of the negative self- talk we constantly listen to are nothing but old beliefs. They sound off in the background like an ignored, but persistent TV. We exist in the present with our fresh, new personality waiting to unmask.
Photo: Veneto's Attractions
References:
(1) Personality Changes Throughout Life. New Scientist.com
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